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To heal, we must remember.

Today Biden and Harris held a ceremony to commemorate those we’ve lost from Covid.
“To heal, we must remember. It’s hard sometimes to remember. But that’s how we heal. It’s important to do that as a nation. That’s why we’re here today.” — Joe Biden
 
I keep finding myself taken aback by how much he seems to be meeting the moment when he speaks. It’s not that he’s saying things with a “presidential tone”or showing basic empathy. It’s that, so far, he sounds as though he may be alluding to the reckoning to come.
 
“It’s hard sometimes to remember. But that’s how we heal.” Is a perfect way to address the pain and loss of this moment.
It’s also a perfect way to invoke the need for accountability.
 
We don’t enable abusers with a collective refusal to address past crimes.
We don’t dignify appeals for “civility” with polite and complicit silence.
We don’t prioritize the comfort of the already comfortable at the expense of the devastated.
 
We remember and we act accordingly. Because…
“It’s hard sometimes to remember. But that’s how we heal.”
 
I’m encouraged by what I’m hearing and by what I hope I’m hearing but I will be vigilant for proof.
 
We are never supposed to take a president at their word. We’re not supposed to insist on seeing meaning where there may be none.
 
We know what it looks like for citizens to insist on seeing valor where there is malice, or action where there is apathy, or values where there is nihilism.
 
So, be encouraged. Be vigilant. And insist on a remembrance of this era that prevents it’s replication.

Day After Trump

It’s not that Hillary was colluding with Trump for an easy win. That every progressive who fought tooth and nail for her (Cory Booker, Michelle and Barack Obama, Bernie Sanders, Wendy Davis..etc) had somehow all collectively sold out on their beliefs and gone to the dark side.

The true scandal is something much older and time tested. Simply put:
It’s not easy to get people to show up to vote on public policy. Especially if that policy centers around cutting taxes for the wealthy, removing access to healthcare, and cutting services for the very poor. But it is easy to get people out to vote if you are unscrupulous enough to convince them that their neighbors are the cause of their suffering and that their champions are their enemies.

We are right to believe that there are hidden forces exerting influence in our democracy. There always will be because where there is power there will also be cronyism, rigging, and abuse. However, we have to not become so vigilant in searching for villains that we forget that history is also filled with decent but flawed public servants who are crucified by the very people they are trying to help.  

Bring which revolution?

What people fail to realize about revolution is that it rarely occurs in the form of oppressed citizens rising unified behind one ideology but instead occurs as several groups rising up under different ideologies. As evidenced today, there is a white nationalist movement that is much more organized, single minded, and focused than an eclectic collection of diverse progressives.

Final Thoughts Before Election 2016

He attended a city hall meeting and sat earnestly listening, thoughtfully engaging, and encouraging those around him to see that he and other gay youth are not all that bad.
He sat through hours of the kind of shockingly hateful ignorance that shakes a person’s belief in the capacity of people to see each other as human in spite of differences.
A week later his parents were planning his funeral.

I stayed awake the night before last trying to put into words what it’s like to grow up in a society that’s convinced you are evil and that has you almost convinced as well.
Words fail me.
But if we’re hoping that things will get so bad under a Trump presidency that we’ll bring the revolution we should first do an inventory of who we’re leaving on the front lines of that hate and ask them if they’re willing to make that sacrifice.

I’m not a single issue voter. I’m not voting only because my rights as a gay person are on the line in this election. I’m also voting because American Muslims, American Mexicans, people of color, and the poor are being demonized and blamed for any struggle they face. I’m voting because stop and frisk policing puts our officers in unnecessary danger and demeans the lives of people of color. I’m voting because I love our veterans and I abhor the congress members who have blocked their access to care at every turn. I’m voting because women’s rights are human rights. I’m voting for universal healthcare, affordable college, a better economy, environmental protections, and because Trumps nihilism is not just in conflict with the Christian values I was taught as a child but they are in fact the polar opposite of those values.

I’m not a single issue voter. This is not a single issue election. But every single issue in this election, and every person it affects, is too important to walk out on.

#ImWithHer #StandUpForYourFriends #YourFriendsWillRemember

Trump’s Law & Order would be like Nixon’s. Only much much worse.

In 1968 there was a huge anti-war student movement coupled with a civil rights movement. These two movements backed 1 democratic candidate in the democratic primaries but that candidate didn’t win the majority of votes. As a result activists felt so fed up that they decided to protest the presidential election leaving the Republican candidate Nixon to win. 

Nixon had campaign as the “Law and Order” candidate who would be able to put an end to all the protests and civil unrest in the streets. 
Years later Nixon’s top aide, John Ehrlichman, would admit in an interview: (the following is a direct quote):

“The Nixon campaign in 1968, and the Nixon White House after that, had two enemies: the antiwar left and black people. … You understand what I’m saying?

We knew we couldn’t make it illegal to be either against the war or black, but by getting the public to associate the hippies with marijuana and blacks with heroin. And then criminalizing both heavily, we could disrupt those communities. … We could arrest their leaders, raid their homes, break up their meetings, and vilify them night after night on the evening news. Did we know we were lying about the drugs? Of course we did.”

Nixon’s rhetoric about black people and anti-war activists set him up to be able to jail, exile, and even kill activists with full approval from the general public. It also set the stage for Regan’s “war on drugs” and all the subsequent policies that appealed to outraged white voters and resulted in the mass incarceration of our communities of color.

Trumps rhetoric is far more hyperbolic, far more overtly racist, and far more erratic than Nixon’s was.
And it’s not “just words”. 
Because those words build the story we tell our society to justify the way our government treats its citizens. 

If we walk out on this election we set back any progress we’ve made on civil rights, women’s rights, workers rights…etc. 
If we sit out this election we don’t bring the revolution. We sink deeper into a denial of our collective history, misinformed outrage, and life-wrecking public policy. 
And we leave the most vulnerable and least represented among us to bear the fallout. 

Go Vote. 
#GetInvolvedStayInvolved #NeverTrump #Imwithher 

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